Giving much thanks ...
This has been such an idyllic long weekend to say the very least. Thanksgiving weekend all these years has always been spent with one or the other of my friends' family. This year though I just stayed around town, took a breather from everything, ehmmm, yeah - work included (ok alright, I did log in briefly for a couple hours but no big deal). Had good home cooked food - idlis and peanut chutney, rice and daal at a friend's place on Thanksgiving day, sat around watching a movie and laughing at the silly antics of the animated characters.
Yesterday, went to dinner at someone else's house and I was quite amazed at how good a time I had hanging out with people I hadnt met before, including a few teenage kids (ok there were adults too but hey not my fault if I enjoyed hanging out more with the kids right?). Played table tennis after ages literally and got beat by a 15 year old but in my defense, I didnt lose without scoring a few points. Had an interesting conversation with a couple girls about how to make your own bead earrings and discussing what we liked and disliked among foods and cuisines. Dinner needless to say was good and the dessert even better (tiramusu anyday anytime!). The surprising and happy part of the evening was listening to a friend's voicemail. He is travelling the world see and he got back into town just for the thanksgiving weekend. So when I heard his voice after a long time, I felt very happy indeed that he was alright and spent a few minutes catching up with him. At the door when we were leaving after playing pictionary, I realized I had not laughed so much or genuinely enjoyed a party in such a long time.
The weekend continues - got up late, watched baby squirrels romping around in the dried leaves that are carpeting open spaces everywhere the eyes can see. I stood outside soaking in the warm rays of the afternoon sun, yellowed leaves fluttering down gently in the wind like feathers, showering me from high above, blue skies forming a perfectly beautiful backdrop. As I stood there watching the antics of the squirrels, I could not think of anything I wanted to add to that moment. I was filled with an inexplicably contented feeling. Walking around the deck, I listened to the leaves crunch beneath my feet and smiled to myself. The little things in life go a long way in making my day and today it seemed like anything and everything was making me happy. Carpe diem (seize the day) is a favorite line of one of my friends. It implies making the most of each day and I think I did a pretty decent job of making the most of not only the day but the entire weekend - hah!
I am watching The Lord of the Rings extended DVD sets one after the other this weekend too, so this sentence from Gandalf is still fresh in my mind and quite apt I think. Gandalf says: (after Frodo laments about being given the burden of the ring)"So do all who see such times, but that is not for them to decide - all we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us." Resonates with such clarity since we all tend to get caught up in situations life throws at us, easily overlooking or even forgetting to do what we enjoy or really want. I dont know about future weekends but atleast this long weekend I took Gandalf's advice =)
Happy Thanksgiving!!
